World of Zingers - 2/13/14

Zinger is when someone has made a remark to you that is meant to sting you. These are the remarks that people say to you to make you feel dumb, or stupid or that you have no clue what you’re talking about. It’s like going to the mechanic and telling him to how to fix your car when you have no idea how to fix cars.  You would think that people actually think before they say something, they don’t.

Now I have lived my whole life with people rattling off this or that, saying it corrected when it just not so. We live in a world that tells you that there is only one way to do things and that’s it. By far that is narrow kind of thinking that has gotten us so many situations. I like to know what makes one think that there is only one way of doing things. It’s just might save me some grief and stress dealing with people who haphazardly walk around putting good people into snap out mode. Why do people think it’s ok to run around thinking and talking because you think you can! I work with more people who have more degrees than I possibly count, yet we don’t teach humility or as old school thinking, think before you speak. You learn a lot more about people if we would just stop and listen.

I was reminded recently, that Love should be your first thought every day and not just on Valentine’s day. Can you imagine, what a differences the world would be! Instead of a world of zinger’s, or of power we actually make an impact on the world. Instead of struggling to be right or for power, greed or pissing people off to stroke ourselves because we can’t deal with our ego being small. We would be much better off listening to ourselves speak to people. 

See the act of listening and the act of speaking are two very different things. They are two very different senses. As an intuitive empath, they vibrated from the body differently. Did you ever speak to someone and you know something is off or that their expression in different than normal! We all work with people, how well to you know the people that you work with? Can you tell if someone is troubled by something or that they had a great weekend! Or whether you can identify them by an emotion or feeling. See whether or not you are an empath or intuitive, you have the ability to see how well you read the people around you or even yourself, as matter of fact. 

Have you ever wondered why people are the way they are? What causes them to become who they are or maybe you never bother to find out why? So the next time you say something, stop yourself and think should I have said that to that person and would I say that about myself. Because what you put out comes back whether you want to Zinger or not!

Here is example say these words to yourself in a mirror? And say them like you mean them:  I hate you, I love you, I am happy or I am sad. They pissed me off or I am glad I met them. Thoughts become things”. You choose, your choice. 

If you want a better life or a world, it starts with you, first.

All the negative thoughts are like a radio turned up really loud and none of the good things can come into being.©

Feeling Safe 2-1-17

Feeling Safe 2-1-17

I was going to write about feeling safe in these uncertain times in different form, but this seemly appropriate.  I have heard that from a few people that they are obsessed with watching the news. Then they tell me, why they feel this need to do this. Yes, were making history of things that have been dissolving for years now. We have seen things that test the very moral fiber of who we are. I told the last person who spoken to me about our new president and wars, along with what is going on in other countries “to unplug from it”. I then said do you want to spend the next four years worried about what could happen or would you rather hold space for peace.

I heard all the but’s, why’s and I said holding a vision of peace seems less stressful. I then told this person that in order to control people fear is created by the ever “what if”. So let’s look at this realistically you stress yourself out, call your local representative and write letters to senator’s demanding change, walking around talking about, complaining or even flip-out; about if want too.  It takes an act of congress to change anything. So how do we feel safe? By knowing that the entire world is watching what is happening and that entire United States is being affected and has been affected by what is happening to people over the last decade and half. (Mind you that is about 325,509,843 in USA)  http://www.worldometers.info/world-population/us-population/ 7.4 the world over and counting.  

This is not the first time in history this has happen and if we use our families and generations as examples of what their lives were during times when they thought about “how it’s all gone to shit”. Would we be reading this now! No.  Now, just image for a moment that you have the power to see a world that finds peacefully ways to resolve much of what is happening in the world. We have seen it, time and time again in history and even in our own lives. Anything that demanded more than we can muster, pushed, pulling at, we have overcome to some degree. Why would we want to digress now! See human’s hearts and minds do not realize that we have more power to change the outcome, than feeding the fear.

See fear has been running rapid long before now. Think about all the fears you have over things, does fear run your life or do you run your life. This brings me to second question someone ask me,” What do victim feel?” This seems like a real dumb thought or question to present to anyone. Have we not all be victims of something or someone one time or another. Have we become so shallow that we cannot image what it’s feels like. See we tend not to see or understand something unless we experience it. But, we have at the hands or words of someone else. Hell, our society promotes hate from being ignorant. They tell us that were different if do something, anything that does fit in the status quo, as everyone else as wrong. Have you ever walked in bad neighborhood or rich neighborhood, surely you would stand out like a weed on a manicured grass!

We see differences because that what we have been told to do. We don’t see a human being, minds or hearts or someone’s child. We see what we want to see. We see what on the outside without ever knowing people on the inside. We don’t know their stories and why they have made the choices that they have in their life.  Maybe the next time you encounter someone that you don’t understand or who seems different than yourself, ask the person!  I am sure you will get much more then you ask for and much-needed education on what the differences are between them and you.  

In this time in history, there has never been more information available to answer anyone one question about anything and everything. The first step is questioning why you believe that there is separation between you or another. Only you can ask the question, who taught me that? So unplug from the fear and starting seeing what is in front you, which is you, and we and us. There is no separation, just your thoughts about! See image of a peaceful world. See peace in encircle the globe and the hearts of all people. ©JJ