Speaking your truth 12-23-15
Family is one of hardest thing to deal
with Christmas or Holiday, if prefer. When gathering with your love ones, know
that you have a choice to engage with the comments and the remarks and
projections of other people that you hold dear to you. You can choose not to
response and hold the energy of putting on a smile or you can tell them that as
thoughtful as they may think what they’re saying, it is hurting your
feelings. Or consider saying “I will have to consider looking at that”. Just nib
it in the bud, so to speak. Be honest with yourself. Don’t carry it around with
you. This is about spending time with people you love, not how many daggers you
can take from other people opinions. And this is exactly what they are, other
people thoughts, opinion and projections about what “They” think is good for
you or not.
Be honest and speak your truth, because
you know what is right for you. As lovely and sincerely, as they may or may not
come cross, our family are the biggest triggers to deal with because their importance
to us. So when they come a firing with the: I would have, I think, or what they
consider useful advice, know it works for them. Not necessary you or your life.
Speak your truth, tell them how it made your feel. Just maybe it will set you free
to be honest with them and yourself; as well as a lesson that as well as their
intention may be for you, they are not living your life for you. Take your
power back and speak your truth.
“Be a guide of light for change”.
Wishing You a Merry Christmas and bless-it New Year.
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