As daughter, what we didn’t learn from out Mother: 01-25-16
We live in this illusion that we
need to take care of everyone else needs, before our own. From getting up in
the morning to the time our mothers went to bed. It was everyone else needs
before their own desires, until that is all they knew. It was about this or
that, the dishes, the wash, the children. The work they did around the house or
until they when to work or after they came home from work. I am not saying
these things were not important, obviously you can’t eat dinner on dirt dishes.
How any times did you see your mother, mom take time out for herself? Or did
you see her take so much time out for herself that she forgot you existed.
As daughters, we have become what
we saw and freeing ourselves from that programming has its own shame and guilt
of not doing what are mothers did for us. We carry the same guilt and shame
because were not honoring family values in sense of what is expected of us, as
mothers, or daughters. Were caught in a society that wants old tradition values
in world that sees no value in a women choice to do what right for her. So this
power struggle within us to do what is best for everyone causes un-necessary
stress, even if your mother does not speak of it. This stress is also carried by
you as mother or daughter. To be in the ever constantly changing world to
express yourself too.
The choices a woman, daughters and
mothers make to come to peace within themselves is burden that we carry too. We
have become so busy trying to please everyone that we sit in wait, until the
children our grown to take action on our own dreams. Or maybe somehow you found
a little niche’ to call your own and your soul is calling you to take more action,
because it feeds your heart and soul to be in your own power, which means for
you to decide whether pursuing your own dreams is meant not playing in old
programs or being supermom. It meant for you to be who you feel you were meant
to be. This longing is just a thought away from realization that “I can be
anyone that I want to Be”
What would your family think, would
they fall apart? Would they love and support you in this new you. Would they
have to do things for themselves? What you’re passionate about that they think
it just a hobby or something that you do? What would it feel like to honor you
for the first time in your life and be who you want to be! Not the programming
that been running around telling you something other than you already know is
not true.
If you can imagine your heart’s
desire, why would you be settling for anything less. Free will goes along way
and don’t you desire to be who you want to be. It’s that simple – it’s a belief
in you, your value as a person. Your dream to create for your-self. Your desire
that you came in with! Your view may not be clear or have form, but it waiting
for you to explore. It’s pulling at your heart strings and to waken within You.
So for now, stop telling yourself -
I can’t, I don’t know how, or how could I,
or even think of putting myself out
there – What would people think! If they’re not supporting you and loving that
your being true to yourself, than maybe it’s their own fears of who they “our”
being projected at you. Like “how dare I stand out on my own”, the last time I
checked you were not them and they are not you. So go search for your passion
and what your heart is calling for you to do, because it might be what you’re
searching for “You”.
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