The Voice Within : What do Horoscopes, Tarot cards and Life have in c...

The Voice Within : What do Horoscopes, Tarot cards and Life have in c...: What do Horoscopes, Tarot cards and Life have in common 01/25/16 Did you ever read you’re horoscope or a random tarot card in ...

What do Horoscopes, Tarot cards and Life have in common 01/25/16

What do Horoscopes, Tarot cards and Life have in common 01/25/16

Did you ever read you’re horoscope or a random tarot card in the morning or really any moment during the day and think that’s pretty much sucks for today! Or maybe you are like me and say that wrong and that can’t be right. I honestly have to admit that I done more times than I like to count, but if that is just the reason why you got that card or reading? See it’s like a fork in the road, you can turn left or right or keep driving straight ahead. These seemly random choices are what makes up our life. Each day is a choice. We can accept what was given in the reading or what the horoscope predicted for us with the alignment of stars. Now I am saying that there is not any truth to these readings, but realizing that there is always a choice in how we proceed with our day is within our creation. 

Did you ever notice when you wake up to go to work and you have over slept and your running around trying to do all the things that you normally would do in the morning and here you are not able to drink a cup of coffee or can’t find anything to wear or you start to leave for work and you forgot something; you now have go and retrieve it or like today in east coast that snow you removed from your car has now frozen your door locks. Then of course in your mind you’re late for work already and traffic not moving and there is an accident or the multitudes of things happens. Your late and your boss know it or that for some unknown fear your full on in panic mode all because you over slept. Now you spend all day trying to get back this time were you apparently lost when you over slept. Then you finally finish your work day to come home exhausted because you spend your whole day worried about being late, when you could have just changed thoughts. See like the reading in horoscopes or tarot card, it’s just a view of a perceived perception of the moment. 

Now had we’d just stopped yourself this morning you would have realized that within a few minutes that there are several options available – 1. I woke up late 2. I can call my boss, 3. They have coffee at work. If I rush myself, I am just going to be rushed more, and still be late. I have vacation time or sick time or I just going to stop and take 5 minutes to adjust and weight out my options on what to do next. Maybe by waking up late you avoid car accident or taking time drink your coffee you became more focus to make a different decision for the rest of your day. See were program to not change our thinking and like horoscopes or tarot cards – there is nothing that is written in stone. It just takes a moment to change your thoughts to come to different possibility. There is art to thinking and thoughts on now you challenge them or not, it really up to you. See if we start questioning our own thoughts in regards what are perceptions really are then the outcome changes and so does our day.

The Voice Within : As daughter, what we didn’t learn from out Mother:...

The Voice Within : As daughter, what we didn’t learn from out Mother:...: As daughter, what we didn’t learn from out Mother: 01/25/16 We live in this illusion that we need to take care of everyone els...

As daughter, what we didn’t learn from out Mother: 01/25/16

As daughter, what we didn’t learn from out Mother: 01-25-16

We live in this illusion that we need to take care of everyone else needs, before our own. From getting up in the morning to the time our mothers went to bed. It was everyone else needs before their own desires, until that is all they knew. It was about this or that, the dishes, the wash, the children. The work they did around the house or until they when to work or after they came home from work. I am not saying these things were not important, obviously you can’t eat dinner on dirt dishes. How any times did you see your mother, mom take time out for herself? Or did you see her take so much time out for herself that she forgot you existed.

As daughters, we have become what we saw and freeing ourselves from that programming has its own shame and guilt of not doing what are mothers did for us. We carry the same guilt and shame because were not honoring family values in sense of what is expected of us, as mothers, or daughters. Were caught in a society that wants old tradition values in world that sees no value in a women choice to do what right for her. So this power struggle within us to do what is best for everyone causes un-necessary stress, even if your mother does not speak of it. This stress is also carried by you as mother or daughter. To be in the ever constantly changing world to express yourself too.

The choices a woman, daughters and mothers make to come to peace within themselves is burden that we carry too. We have become so busy trying to please everyone that we sit in wait, until the children our grown to take action on our own dreams. Or maybe somehow you found a little niche’ to call your own and your soul is calling you to take more action, because it feeds your heart and soul to be in your own power, which means for you to decide whether pursuing your own dreams is meant not playing in old programs or being supermom. It meant for you to be who you feel you were meant to be. This longing is just a thought away from realization that “I can be anyone that I want to Be”

What would your family think, would they fall apart? Would they love and support you in this new you. Would they have to do things for themselves? What you’re passionate about that they think it just a hobby or something that you do? What would it feel like to honor you for the first time in your life and be who you want to be! Not the programming that been running around telling you something other than you already know is not true.

If you can imagine your heart’s desire, why would you be settling for anything less. Free will goes along way and don’t you desire to be who you want to be. It’s that simple – it’s a belief in you, your value as a person. Your dream to create for your-self. Your desire that you came in with! Your view may not be clear or have form, but it waiting for you to explore. It’s pulling at your heart strings and to waken within You.

So for now, stop telling yourself -  I can’t, I don’t know how, or how could I, or  even think of putting myself out there – What would people think! If they’re not supporting you and loving that your being true to yourself, than maybe it’s their own fears of who they “our” being projected at you. Like “how dare I stand out on my own”, the last time I checked you were not them and they are not you. So go search for your passion and what your heart is calling for you to do, because it might be what you’re searching for “You”.  

Love, Loss and Addiction 01/19/16

Love, Loss and Addiction 01/19/16

Today I was reminded of how precious life is, I lost a second friend in less than year to addiction. It is unfortunate that people don’t realized how much they /or you are loved. You can have the worst situation at the moment, but it’s not your whole life. Your life is short here, and we take for grant that we will have people in our lives tomorrow. But the truth is, they are not. Life is a blessing in each moment that you breathe, you are created from love. Even when that love is disguise as pain and suffering. We tend to think that this is all we have and that nothing ever changes. But that’s a lie, we came from love and we return to love. 

I cannot tell you how or why it is, but there no greater loss then someone leaving before that time. We all have distance memory of Love and peace that we remember deep within our soul. This feeling turns and churns to be fill by us. It is not outside of you, it is you. The only person that can fill that hole is you. The question then becomes do you love yourself enough, to love you first. We all like to meet the “One” who completes us. But that person can’t come, if you’re standing in your own way. See love is receptacle, you have to be what you want before it can flow to you. This applied down to basic foundation of soul. You came here to love unconditional and that is the nature of your existence. It not the partner, it’s not a job, it’s not the money or all the lesson that life has offered up until this point on your journey.

It is love and it’s not a cliche. It’s larger than life and you are a part of it, in all it's form. Understandably, we have forgotten that it us and life matters. And no matter what you’re going through, it about you and the love that brought you to experience life. There is not anyone one person on this planet that we not say for a moment, that if they could have 5 minutes with a loved one that they would accept those minutes without ever questioning another thought. So for now I leave you will this _ When you’re in your head, or life is not ideal – Someone Loves you and even in your darkest hour, you are loved and love. That is what you came here to be, and nothing less. So from my heart to yours remember the love that you are, because I love you enough to miss you.   

In honor of My Friend Catherine Ann Sobotka (Hitchcock)