I was thinking how we self-punish ourselves. Not
because we deliberately want to be punished in some form. It is mindset or
programming from an early age. And since most people come from a
dysfunctional family that transcends our lineage by inheritance and not in the
form of money or property. Yet, it could be mental property. As in myself
saying Why I do I do that! A valid question I supposed. But when you realize
how much mental space it is taking up!
One needs to question why am I doing that..? The guides
have come through and said worrying is a useless state of being, that we are
wasting energy on the past actions or thoughts instead of creating a different
outcome. So, I got thinking about the times when we ended our relationship,
jobs, made a choice in our lives that didn’t create that expectation that we
desired.
If I look at the root cause of this self-punishment
it would have begun in my childhood because I did something that didn’t, please
another or I didn’t understand what was being asked of me or I was not doing or
being exactly how another would have wanted or done. See I know that in order
to change a behavior or thought pattern of belief, that you need to be aware
that you’re doing it.
Since most schooling and parenting is not
questioning the world or thoughts but more of the action of remembering and
repeating what you have learned, whereas were taught to think in just one
direction versus seeing multiple possible at the same time. It is kind of like
getting directions for putting something together and it makes no sense or
rather nonsense. You then say screw it and layout all the pieces and say I know
what it is supposed to look like and work out how you put it together.
So, if we or you are self-punishing ourselves for
perceived wrongs which are part of the human experience for you or your soul to
grow, is it possible that there are no errors! That job ended because it was
not the right fit, that relationship ended because you learned that you had
different thoughts and beliefs on what you wanted in your life. Were sold on
the fact that there is only one soulmate for us when in reality everyone is a
soulmate. There may not Sexual connection to procreate but that does mean every
person is not an opportunity to make a soul connection.
The guides often say nothing that you experienced is
there without a reason. You have called into being, this is similar to what is
taught about the law of attraction except people look at it in material aspect
for financial gain instead of an experienced of. So, while we're trained into
that we should self-punish for the ending of things, whatever they may be, to
then see them as an opportunity to get clearer about the things that we really
want for ourselves, instead, we’re suffering or punish because we didn’t get it
right.
Now we could go deeper and say this karma or
ancestor programming that Well for lack of better words that you’re not good
enough or worthy of better, or you deserve to suffer. Understandingly there is
a grieving process with any loss or change that affects our life or lives. But
what about the present or future, so many are caught in the past like armor
that does not allow things in that we miss opportunity because we are caught in
the mindset that I did this, and this happen and not looking beyond to what
could be.
We all came in with a dream and I don’t think
suffering is one of them. So instead of self-punishment of the soul having
human experienced we could say “what did I learn from that experience and what
would I change or see differently” because if we question our own thoughts,
they have no power over you to occupy space in the mind and to choose
differently.
Since this could be a lengthy conversation to
question your thoughts and why you think the way you do and knowing rightly that
you hold the keys to the answers that you seek, on just need to question
yourself and why you choose the thoughts that you do. Good day.
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