Forgetting in the face of what you do have: 4/16/16

Forgetting in the face of what you do have: 4-16-16

Everyday were faced with a multiple choices. We tend to forget that there always choices. We forget what we have achieved, the things that we have come or the challenge that we still face. We forget in the wanting that we come so far that we forget to appreciate who or what circumstances have pushed and pulled at us to keep going with each breath; as in The world we dream of and world we want to live in. 

Our desire to achieve a certain level whether it professional, status or social status. We forget the pain and the emotions that kept us moving forward. We tend to want more, more and ever seek it, until it burns on minds and takes hold that were not enough. When the fact is that we have always been, we have pushed ourselves, we faced the uncertainly, of what may have cause pain, or the choices that we made to leave others behind because we knew that things need to change for that is not who we wanted to be.    

There is a different way. Life is not what others have choose for us, that we make the way for the path that we walk. If we stood on that road as others seem fit, we would not be ourselves. We chose hardships to reach a level within us that is truth to ourselves. Many people attempt to us see that this is what it is and that we were supposed to do the same as them. Settle and allow the dreams or desire of heart to disappear into the realms of forgotten memories. 

That we should expect that we should not desire so much that those emotions linger and pull at the heart, because we remember that life is not supposed to be a road that travels in one direction. That there are many opportunity for souls to explored and what’s beyond what the expectations of others. Each day the breath that we breathe life into heart and souls is the same breath that gives us life and just because we have encountered the throws of life and the wants to achieved a desire or outcome there are moments that we just need to be present for the now.

Tomorrow has gone and future is not yet known, but right here in the now is a time to acknowledge that we already are so much more than we have thought. If we had lived in the thoughts of others who would we have be more or less than we know. See, the desire and fire that ignite within us is the true passion of the expectations that we are. You ready are everything and anything that could possible to be. It is what you do that determines whether your actions align in way that allow you to see the greatest of the soul or who you are. 

It not what you have or own or the expectations of the abundance that allow you to have a more fruitful life, it is what you already are, you are the dream, that desire, the fruit of your own creation, you are the one that you been seeking, you the hope, and inspiration that we forget that exist in all people.

We forget that we all are connected by the weaves and webs of life. We are not bound by people, situation or experience and that many have encountered, to say that you did not have a choice in its creation. What if you had to stand before your chosen god and tell him what kind of person you are/were, how would you define your experience? Would tell him about the wonders or the pain or would you tell of the life was harder then you expected and that you met wonderful people and that you met people who truly forgotten that they were magicians and gods of their creation. 

Would you expect the fear of a life not lived to take you to life that you should be punish and deemed to the hells of what others have created? What is hell? Many would say they have been to hell and back because they have faced others creations in their minds. Have you ever known anyone to come back from hell and lived to tell about its damnation! Have you ever thought about why you believe, such a story and why would one to choose to believe!

Really think about this who is creating what you believe? Who used these idea’s to keep enslaved to others, who told you were wrong, bad or separate and worthless or unloved. Who, why would people to do this to you, why would people act like you are not worth the same respect as another. How many are walking around thinking that they are more because of money, status or career.. Who justify they worth? 

Some think about heaven, do you think heaven treat people that same way. What the cost! We see people as bad because we been taught we were bad. Think for moment when was the first time you were taught, you were bad, wrong or any verbiage that speaking of someone dislike of something. We do it every day and people who much like ourselves are trying to figure it out too. Why? Who separated us into groups of color, status, societies, or by money or by difference of thought? What if we are the creators of things that happen in world! Would still considerate yourself a good person. What beliefs have you choose from your family, friends and society that make you who you are? Why are you chosen or another? Why? Is an endless question. Why are the yous, that answer to your questions, and the how’s are builder of see a difference world. 

How can I be the change, how do I show up in a world that make me see different, how is that this still goes on in a world that wants heaven on earth. How starts with self. Who I am? How do I see myself? What is my role in life? What is it that I want to do for myself that benefits that whole? How do I need to feel whole and complete? What am I missing that I can’t see for myself? I is all, how many times have you encounter people with similar experiences and lives. 

We can’t change the past but the future is always open to be express and expanded and changed, but that need to happen now and it just a thought away. So what do you do now! You have you and carried yourself this far, regardless of bumps of life. Who creates, you. To see change it starts with you. Take baby steps if you have too. No one said it was going to be easy.

The Voice Within : Forgotten Dreams 4/9/16

The Voice Within : Forgotten Dreams 4/9/16: Forgotten Dreams 4/9/16 We all had dream when we were small, we dream being a great doctor, fireman or nurse. We mimicked wh...

Forgotten Dreams 4/9/16

Forgotten Dreams 4-9-16

We all had dream when we were small, we dream being a great doctor, fireman or nurse. We mimicked what we were going be as we play with friends. Some of played cooking, or played as greater build, it did matter what we building except that we were playing. You may have told your parents that I am going great …. Person when I grow up. How far from our dreams did we, become. We remember moments taking care of people, they may have been in the form of dolls or toys. Are bikes were the wheels that took beyond the boundary of our imagination. We climb trees to see beyond of view of the world within our own back yard. Sticks were swords and the woods and creek were the magically land of beyond. Playing man hunt was as excited to know that could hide beyond the light, hiding in the darkest from people. 

Our dreams were real, as real as we played. Dreaming meant that nothing could stop us. The only limits were when we have to go home with the lights came on and the darkness fell beyond our view. We followed these dreams until some point that it was not so cool to play anymore, we wanted to be like the people who were doing things away from the safely of our parents eyes. We started to forget that we had dreams and that playing was part of the dream that we started for ourselves. 

We became aware that there was more beyond the reach of our view. So slowly, we stopped pretending that we could be anything or take risks for the adventure of traveling outside comforts our home. We had started to grow up because that was expected for us. It was no longer ok to dream about the adventures or becoming who we were meant to be, life was serious and we need to adjust. How many times did our parent explain that it not all fun and games, things need to get done! 

We needed to be serious, playing was for little kids, and we needed to do this or that before anything else. Or maybe to needed to mind your sibling or be were our parents could not be. Some may have been done to keep you safe others to keep you busy or maybe you free to choose what you did because the people who should be busy guiding you, were busy trying to keep their own balance in a world that is ever changing. 

What if you became lost in the mix of life and there was no one to guide and reel you in, when you’re stepped so far out of comfort area. What about the times that you felt so controlled that you rebel at the life the no longer fit your view? Were you may just want to going and doing things that your friends were doing. May you pushed so hard against what was happening around you that you misjudged what was expected of you. You may have worked really hard to hold onto your dreams or they disappeared from your conscious, because that was not reality that you were living.

Things had changed, you had changed. You were no longer that child with a dream bigger than life itself. You were caught in the next phrase of life that test the limits of what you could do. You wanted the freedom to create or maybe you chase the fantasy of work, marriage, child and having success at the hand of another. See this world has a way of letting us know that unless were doing like everyone were not complete. Were not moving in direction that benefits us. If were expressing by gender were meant to marriage and as male show our power of being manly, when in fact that same opportunity are presented to both. With the Exception that were taught from earlier age that were not meant to just be who/whom we are.

Were forced to address what side we pick. If you ask a little girl what their supposed to be, than what they want, it is very difference than what a little boy see for himself. Are roles are formed in ways very different, than we saw for yourselves. Now we live in very difference world these days, dreams play out by titles, money and who you know or what you know verse seeing people as who they are, people, human and that we all had the same dreams of creating a world for ourselves and people in it. 

When we were small we did not see people as difference, unless we saw something that we did not have a reference point for us. We did see people as different, we felt the way people interacted with people as different. And as children do we asked questions as to why and hopefully parents answer with an open respond to allow you to understanding. We did not divide people, or say things that would be considered bias by all means. We were allow to see who they were for how, it was presented. 

Along the way we became “self” important, and forgot to realize that we all had dreams and those dreams were big deals and things to us. We been forced to separate ourselves from our neighbor or people. The connection that brought us our dreams of playing remains in our minds filed away in part of our brain and hearts. We know that we capable of loving, because otherwise we would not love at all. But yet, we allow the people, family, friends and society to tell us that we are difference. We teach it, we talk about it and even confronted because we want to be seen as difference and that were not like other people. 

We say things like I am not capable becoming like them. That we don’t do things like them. The fact is we are like them and they are like us, you, me and everyone one else on the planet. We all had dreams that we expected to achieve in this life and tried our best to attain. True attainment come from wisdom of looking inside yourself and saying Hey, they are just like me on a different journey of life and realized that you have, had dreams that allow you to have what you have now and that we all are like a children, with dreams of being and doing exactly what we set out to do: good, wrong, indifferent we are our parents, neighbor and friends. If you dream as not awoken, you may in fact, be your live in someone else dream. Is what you created for yourself truly your dream or are living out the expectation, which others had for you. Remember a child know what he/or she came here to do. Ask your - self what did I really want to do in this life time? You might be really surprised what that answer is for you!  

It is this Simple 4/9/16

It is this Simple 4-9-16

Today it snowing in April, and like most people I have encounter today at the store, everyone complaining about or question why it’s snowing. It snows every year in April and even in May, but somehow we completely forget year after year. Now, I went shopping for summer because I know that just because it’s snowing today, tomorrow it will not be and a few weeks from now it will be warmer, the trees and flowers will all be in bloom, the sun will be shining and this day will be just another day in the journey called life. So enjoy the day, be grateful that you had the time for yourself, and sit back and watch the snow as it falls down, because you ever know what the future holds. So why not stop and enjoy it. It just another day to observe with mindful thoughts of that we create for ourselves. So make yourself warm cup of tea with good book and watch the snow fall to the ground, it’s that simple.