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Showing posts with label moment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label moment. Show all posts

Monday, June 13, 2016

Loving are stories 6-13-16

Loving are stories 6-13-16

We all have are stories that we tell to ourselves. The family that we did not have or the mother or father that did not pay attention to us, but what if it was for us to see that were not much different than other people. As you listen to other people tell of their hardship and the pain that there going through, we often wonder why such thing happen to people in the way that they have. Everything starts with love and sometime it more of an attachment verses what is considered love. Many people believe they are in love because another soul see them as a missing void of what they think love is, when the fact is that it is not.

Love just is, it is not attachment to things, and it is not controlling or separation of. It is energy in emotion that allow us to accept what is. Accepting is a key factor of most things in form. We what matter most to us. Some like the cold, some like the warm weather, some relish in the fact that the fall brings winter to celebrate the changing of the season. No matter what love is, it’s formless in that it takes but a moment to see it is another. Sometimes it does not play out the way we vision for ourselves. Did you ever just sit next to someone in silent, is there love flowing between the two? They really don’t need to say anything, there just being. Did you ever watch the wind blow their the trees or the rain come down ever so lightly that it did seem like it was raining. 

Did ever attend a baseball game and watch the dirt float into the air to be pushed through the air. How many birds have crossed your path while driving to slow you down because you’re driving in car too, fast! Have you never look down off a hill or cliff to see what was beyond you. These moments are the essence of your being. The people that you work with are they not fellow human with a soul expression that love flow between you to work as a community to accomplish a goal. 

We tend to dismiss the very core of our existence. The idea of love has changed and altered to only be a physical act, when it is always around you. Do you not walk out your doors each morning to see the wonderful things that are about you? All things are energy in form. The love of creation, which you and everyone created. People see separation because they themselves feel separated from themselves. They don’t see the beauty that is all around them, whether you live in the mountains or the cities. When we vacation, where or why do you chose to vacation, it is a time of rest from the world around you or is to venture out to see the beauty in different way. 

Yet, often enough we get displease with what we see around, because that is what we created around ourselves. From drama to situation to lifestyle choices or our very struggles. Often we seek relationships that reflect the very core of what is missing from our own lives. When we look at a relationship that seems quite odd to us, we deem all the qualities as different as our own thoughts. We look for the negative of why’s. Instead, of accepting that each has its own growth and potential to be so much more. Just a light casts a shadow we cannot fully understand what is being reflected by the light. Just as if one should take that time to be with themselves, they would see that they have been dishonest with themselves. We deem things as good or bad, and rightful so, that is what you have learned by many. But have you truly learn to be honest with yourself. Deeming things as wrong, has been a way of life. How many of you were taught by your parent that the stove was hot. You were taught it was hot to not hurt yourselves. It was not wrong, but a way to keep you safe. Have you ever search for what was really wrong with what you perceived as wrong, and then question whether you have done it in some form,  of it yourself.

Those extra sugars packets that you didn’t use, is still stealing. Can you honestly say without a doubt that you have never done anything to any one? What about the spider you killed the other day or the bee you freak out about? Are they not entitle to a life too! Did ever look up what a spider work is or snake?   Who taught you that they were wrong? Did someone else fear get in the way and how instead of challenging your thoughts or beliefs you go with what everyone else as taught you. 

Oh, what a mighty bridge it must be, to all jump together. Ah humor, to think that all should follow in the same direction, as jumping off the bridge!  Did you ever stop and think about what makes you, you? It can’t be you hair, or eyes, or the size of body, or the knowledge you have, or job, how much money you have or what car you drive, or the things that you own. It’s your essence, your soul. Your personal vibration in the world that is vast and infinite all the same time. 

What makes you, you! It not your parents, husband, boyfriends, girlfriends, children. Are the things that you’re afraid of, the things that you fear, are they the part of you that you don’t know about yourself? Really, think about who are you? And when you think you know and then look again! It bigger then what you think you know, smaller than the smallest cell. Then look again! 

Monday, January 25, 2016

What do Horoscopes, Tarot cards and Life have in common 01/25/16



What do Horoscopes, Tarot cards and Life have in common 01/25/16



Did you ever read you’re horoscope or a random tarot card in the morning or really any moment during the day and think that’s pretty much sucks for today! Or maybe you are like me and say that wrong and that can’t be right. I honestly have to admit that I done more times than I like to count, but if that is just the reason why you got that card or reading? See it’s like a fork in the road, you can turn left or right or keep driving straight ahead. These seemly random choices are what makes up our life. Each day is a choice. We can accept what was given in the reading or what the horoscope predicted for us with the alignment of stars. Now I am saying that there is not any truth to these readings, but realizing that there is always a choice in how we proceed with our day is within our creation. 


Did you ever notice when you wake up to go to work and you have over slept and your running around trying to do all the things that you normally would do in the morning and here you are not able to drink a cup of coffee or can’t find anything to wear or you start to leave for work and you forgot something; you now have go and retrieve it or like today in east coast that snow you removed from your car has now frozen your door locks. Then of course in your mind you’re late for work already and traffic not moving and there is an accident or the multitudes of things happens. Your late and your boss know it or that for some unknown fear your full on in panic mode all because you over slept. Now you spend all day trying to get back this time were you apparently lost when you over slept. Then you finally finish your work day to come home exhausted because you spend your whole day worried about being late, when you could have just changed thoughts. See like the reading in horoscopes or tarot card, it’s just a view of a perceived perception of the moment. 


Now had we’d just stopped yourself this morning you would have realized that within a few minutes that there are several options available – 1. I woke up late 2. I can call my boss, 3. They have coffee at work. If I rush myself, I am just going to be rushed more, and still be late. I have vacation time or sick time or I just going to stop and take 5 minutes to adjust and weight out my options on what to do next. Maybe by waking up late you avoid car accident or taking time drink your coffee you became more focus to make a different decision for the rest of your day. See were program to not change our thinking and like horoscopes or tarot cards – there is nothing that is written in stone. It just takes a moment to change your thoughts to come to different possibility. There is art to thinking and thoughts on now you challenge them or not, it really up to you. See if we start questioning our own thoughts in regards what are perceptions really are then the outcome changes and so does our day.

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

Love, Loss and Addiction 01/19/16



Love, Loss and Addiction 01/19/16



Today I was reminded of how precious life is, I lost a second friend in less than year to addiction. It is unfortunate that people don’t realized how much they /or you are loved. You can have the worst situation at the moment, but it’s not your whole life. Your life is short here, and we take for grant that we will have people in our lives tomorrow. But the truth is, they are not. Life is a blessing in each moment that you breathe, you are created from love. Even when that love is disguise as pain and suffering. We tend to think that this is all we have and that nothing ever changes. But that’s a lie, we came from love and we return to love. 


I cannot tell you how or why it is, but there no greater loss then someone leaving before that time. We all have distance memory of Love and peace that we remember deep within our soul. This feeling turns and churns to be fill by us. It is not outside of you, it is you. The only person that can fill that hole is you. The question then becomes do you love yourself enough, to love you first. We all like to meet the “One” who completes us. But that person can’t come, if you’re standing in your own way. See love is receptacle, you have to be what you want before it can flow to you. This applied down to basic foundation of soul. You came here to love unconditional and that is the nature of your existence. It not the partner, it’s not a job, it’s not the money or all the lesson that life has offered up until this point on your journey.


It is love and it’s not a cliche. It’s larger than life and you are a part of it, in all it's form. Understandably, we have forgotten that it us and life matters. And no matter what you’re going through, it about you and the love that brought you to experience life. There is not anyone one person on this planet that we not say for a moment, that if they could have 5 minutes with a loved one that they would accept those minutes without ever questioning another thought. So for now I leave you will this _ When you’re in your head, or life is not ideal – Someone Loves you and even in your darkest hour, you are loved and love. That is what you came here to be, and nothing less. So from my heart to yours remember the love that you are, because I love you enough to miss you.   



In honor of My Friend Catherine Ann Sobotka (Hitchcock)