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Showing posts with label conversation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label conversation. Show all posts

Sunday, September 15, 2019

9-15-19 Let’s talk about Sex


9-15-19 Let’s talk about Sex

Yesterday, while working I had a conversation with a high school teacher who teaches algebra my least favorite subject vs teaching kids about financing and handling money. The teacher then informed that she had to teach one of the students how to figure out whether her student had gotten his girl pregnant. I asked the teacher what the hell is a 14-year-old boy or girl even having sex for.

Now I have two boys who I tried to educate not on just school matters but life. The teacher did not have an answer to my question as to why. I thought that she may have some insight that I didn’t.  I got to thinking about the conversation today, not that my parents ever sat me down and had any remote conversation about sex with me. Then I got thinking about my niece is in the early twenties and has four children already. So, I started to wonder what the hell is wrong here.

I have told and tell my children to follow their passion and see the world, do what you love, and it does not in entail making babies or getting married like the old program of getting an education, a job, find a partner and settle down to buy a house. I am not saying education is not important but that we put these social and society programs in their minds thinking that it is the only way that it should be done. 
 
Then my next thought is technology with all the technology that we have available how is that we can’t have a simple conversation with the ones that we care about the most. Are we all so busy pursuing money to support ourselves that we're failing our children and their ability to create a future and world that gives them choices? As I reflect on my own life and my children’s future would I have done things differently without a doubt, yes! 

At least I got to experience life before having children and that is the only wish for them, is to experience life and not be tied down to it. And know that it doesn’t have to be done a certain way. With what little guidance that I did get, if any, I have always known that it did not have to be done in any order or where we are brainwashed into thinking there is only one way. If that we true, then technology would not exist. 

You know I lived in a lot of places and see these children and some as young as five whose life is already been written for them because we as parents are failing them in so many ways that we keep fearing  having a conversation on sex or that they can choose a different life for themselves, culture or otherwise. We really need to stop, take responsibility and have a conversation that impacts that future of our children and our life. If we aren’t willing to challenge of own fears about sex, life, culture, religion or nationality then we're failing as humans.

Tuesday, August 9, 2016

Conversation with the Guides: 8/8/2016


Conversation with the Guides: 8/8/2016

What if today you had to answer for all your pain, suffering that you caused in the world, all the negative thoughts and words that you created because someone else hurt you. Would you amend those sorrows that you created for another – would you look into their eyes and truly tell them you were sorry for the scar that you caused them. Would you be able to hold unconditional love and light, that all souls are? Would you be able to feel so deeply into your soul those feeling and emotions that caused another to walk a different path? What if, you were the god placed before them and chose your words that deemed them insignificant in world that you all have created. The divinity is within and not one among you is greater than another. That you came here, now to remember that all walk the same path to remember the spark of creation. To remember the Master’s that you are. You have chosen this life time to throw out the dogma of separation and stand as powerful creator and own who you are.

You are not what you have been told. You are not just humans in form. Your vessel is not just your body and mind. You come from a magnificence of the universe. You have been taught to see separation and that your powerless to create a difference in a world that would entrap you to think that because you came from a situation of less than ideal, that you deserve less. What of your fellow man/woman do they deserve less than you? You are separate because that is chose to forget, who you are. You chose your stories and how they would play-out. You were taught darkness, hate and separation, what is perceived as good and evil, as what is ugly, that your smart or dumb on a program that was designed by whom! You have lived my life times to be right here and now. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow is a projections of possibilities. You have chosen now to be the brilliant being that you are, there no mistakes in that!

Only you can decide what is truth for you. Somewhere with you, lies the knowledge and keys for the truth. You have played the games and programs, well, as they were written and imposed a pond you. Now it time to remember and wake up from the illusion that was created, from so much of polarity on your planet that you call home. Unequally, exists because you have allowed it to become truth, no one should be kneeing before anyone, you are all souls of the light in form. You chose now to waken to the truth. You must make a conscious decision to awaken, no-one can make that choice for you. You must follow your hearts to the realizations of the truth. Some part of you knows and it pulls at you, when see destruction a pond your planet, one some level you have agreed to tear down those lies of that have been weaved to reality.   

The truth of who you are is within, not in the illusion. May would say how is it illusion? If I can see it, as so. You have not learned to not see it as anything other than it is. You only learned to expand, what you have been taught. What if you changed the view- on everything? This vessel, as well others that we speak through came in with many of the same challenges that most encounter, but have agreed and have memories that they could not explained to another, had they would have been labeled as such, you tend to label things that you do not understand or even bother to question. It seems to past from one generation to next. And really have you ever bother to seek the answers out for yourself. Other than what you are told, what do you really know about the soul or your spirit! Is it taught at schools, in your homes, or in your family! How do you really know, who you are? If you/yourself have never challenged your own beliefs of who you are! How would you even begin to explain to a child that they are manifested spirit in form of body, mind. That you can create whatever you want! And that you create with love of all people, animals, the planet and that serves the greater good of all.

To most this seems a fanciful idea and concept. Yet, it not taught on level that is greatly accepted. Are you taught about the builder, achiever, and the good going on in the world! You have what you have, because you were taught for hundreds of years. You are not taught about the people who stood in their truth, even your nightly news reflects what world you live in! You see what you see, because people want you to see it as so. Fear control the mind and love does not, it expanses your view. How many events need to play-out before you see your fears are creating the very world you inhabit.  Really, think about this what you fear, create more of the same response. Challenge your fears, challenge your beliefs, be like children again and do it anyway. So what! Maybe you will change your view.