9-15-19 Let’s talk about Sex

9-15-19 Let’s talk about Sex

Yesterday, while working I had a conversation with a high school teacher who teaches algebra my least favorite subject vs teaching kids about financing and handling money. The teacher then informed that she had to teach one of the students how to figure out whether her student had gotten his girl pregnant. I asked the teacher what the hell is a 14-year-old boy or girl even having sex for.

Now I have two boys who I tried to educate not on just school matters but life. The teacher did not have an answer to my question as to why. I thought that she may have some insight that I didn’t.  I got to thinking about the conversation today, not that my parents ever sat me down and had any remote conversation about sex with me. Then I got thinking about my niece is in the early twenties and has four children already. So, I started to wonder what the hell is wrong here.

I have told and tell my children to follow their passion and see the world, do what you love, and it does not in entail making babies or getting married like the old program of getting an education, a job, find a partner and settle down to buy a house. I am not saying education is not important but that we put these social and society programs in their minds thinking that it is the only way that it should be done. 

 

Then my next thought is technology with all the technology that we have available how is that we can’t have a simple conversation with the ones that we care about the most. Are we all so busy pursuing money to support ourselves that we're failing our children and their ability to create a future and world that gives them choices? As I reflect on my own life and my children’s future would I have done things differently without a doubt, yes! 

At least I got to experience life before having children and that is the only wish for them, is to experience life and not be tied down to it. And know that it doesn’t have to be done a certain way. With what little guidance that I did get, if any, I have always known that it did not have to be done in any order or where we are brainwashed into thinking there is only one way. If that we true, then technology would not exist. 

You know I lived in a lot of places and see these children and some as young as five whose life is already been written for them because we as parents are failing them in so many ways that we keep fearing  having a conversation on sex or that they can choose a different life for themselves, culture or otherwise. We really need to stop, take responsibility and have a conversation that impacts that future of our children and our life. If we aren’t willing to challenge of own fears about sex, life, culture, religion or nationality then we're failing as humans.

What if it were True

What if it were True                         

2/10/15

When you were a small child how many times have your thoughts, or what you saw, or believe were been dismissed by another. You were told your dreaming, or it was not real or even daydreaming, because someone did not want to listen to you. They dismissed you and what you really saw. Why is it so hard to believe that there are spirits, ghost, shadows, angels, and other beings? There are countless books, movies, stories told about visions of things that other considers taboo.

Why do we fear something we do not understand? Why do all different kinds of people from children to older people experience these amazing visions and then share with another, to get push back as a childish memory. That someone told them it was not truth/true, Or the fact the all-different culture or nationality have reported having these experiences, yet even in today world, it some kind of tricky of the mind. Are we really deceiving ourselves in to thinking that our mind are deceiving ourselves. Most people consider themselves rational people who can think, see and even justify what we believe, but what if the thoughts of others has kept us partly in the dark, to the point that of soul growth lies in the dark. That it is possible and the question remains for us to answer. That within us it is for us to explore that possibility that there is truth that things exist beyond our field of vision.

Many people and organizations would have us deny part of ourselves that we know is true. It is like saying this part is good and that part is bad and this is untrue, so I am not going to acknowledge that part of me or that thought, because they or someone is going to tell us differently than what we really know about ourselves. Therefore, what if it is true, how can it possibility make a difference whether I acknowledge it within me, what if believe. We live in a world that we agreed to suppress our birthright to not question or understand something that we can see and deny. Do we wait until it has been proven in science or by our government, or right in front of us? That it exists and has always existed.

You know the number one form of mediation is prayer. Millions, millions of prayers are said every day. We hope and have questioned that they are heard. Most believe that there is unseen help to help us in our journey on the earth. Can you image the shift to people and the planet, if we all believed in something that can be visual seen. Can you image the hearts of the world opening to believe in that we have unseen help, regardless of what we call them, and it does matter what we call them, as longer as we stay open to the fact, to allow things to shift and change within. How you have prayed for something so hard and for so long than life shifts, and the right people, door, money or what you ask for moves and shifts to allow you to move forward in a way that you could not even image for yourself. Many would have you think life is what it is, but what if you believe that you could have everything you ever wanted and you did not have to be a rock star to get. Would you investigate those thoughts, visions, beliefs until the impossible became possible?