9-15-19 Let’s talk about Sex

9-15-19 Let’s talk about Sex

Yesterday, while working I had a conversation with a high school teacher who teaches algebra my least favorite subject vs teaching kids about financing and handling money. The teacher then informed that she had to teach one of the students how to figure out whether her student had gotten his girl pregnant. I asked the teacher what the hell is a 14-year-old boy or girl even having sex for.

Now I have two boys who I tried to educate not on just school matters but life. The teacher did not have an answer to my question as to why. I thought that she may have some insight that I didn’t.  I got to thinking about the conversation today, not that my parents ever sat me down and had any remote conversation about sex with me. Then I got thinking about my niece is in the early twenties and has four children already. So, I started to wonder what the hell is wrong here.

I have told and tell my children to follow their passion and see the world, do what you love, and it does not in entail making babies or getting married like the old program of getting an education, a job, find a partner and settle down to buy a house. I am not saying education is not important but that we put these social and society programs in their minds thinking that it is the only way that it should be done. 

 

Then my next thought is technology with all the technology that we have available how is that we can’t have a simple conversation with the ones that we care about the most. Are we all so busy pursuing money to support ourselves that we're failing our children and their ability to create a future and world that gives them choices? As I reflect on my own life and my children’s future would I have done things differently without a doubt, yes! 

At least I got to experience life before having children and that is the only wish for them, is to experience life and not be tied down to it. And know that it doesn’t have to be done a certain way. With what little guidance that I did get, if any, I have always known that it did not have to be done in any order or where we are brainwashed into thinking there is only one way. If that we true, then technology would not exist. 

You know I lived in a lot of places and see these children and some as young as five whose life is already been written for them because we as parents are failing them in so many ways that we keep fearing  having a conversation on sex or that they can choose a different life for themselves, culture or otherwise. We really need to stop, take responsibility and have a conversation that impacts that future of our children and our life. If we aren’t willing to challenge of own fears about sex, life, culture, religion or nationality then we're failing as humans.

Creating a different World: 10/11/15

Creating a different World: 10-11-15 

Creating – defined in the holistic, spiritual, alternative healing, alternative medical, and universe: is about creating in your life or world. If you are seeing people less then you, you are creating separation, if you are creating drama then going to get drama, if your feeding gossip expected gossip return to you. If you are constant worried, your need to question your fears, if you have the same situations coming up over, over again, you need question your involvement, if see something in another what is it reflecting in/to you about you, it a mirror of your soul. If you encounter angry what you are denied, if see hate who do hate or hate about yourself, if you are not happy why, what missing from your life. If you’re missing love are you loving yourself first. If you are lonely, why? Do need to express yourself more and connect with people love support you. If you’re tired what needs to change, are eating a balance diet, exercise feeding you heart and soul, our really be honest, truthful with yourself. If you want more are you asking the right questions, are seeking the answers to your questions.

See words are a powerful in the way they are said, expressed and felt, within the soul. What words are using to express your life and world are you. To see a different world, you have to create it. If you see differently, you have to become something other than what you know. You have to work at it, question yourself, question what your saying, doing, thinking about yourself and others. Question your reality. Our living from your heart and soul, or existing in world that would have you be less than really are. 

Defined by the dictionary:

Create

verb cre·ate \krē-ˈāt, ˈkrē-ˌ\

: to make or produce (something) : to cause (something new) to exist

: to cause (a particular situation) to exist

: to produce (something new, such as a work of art) by using your talents and imagination

The Voice Within

Growing As Person 8/01/15

Growing As Person 8-01-15

We forget how we grow as person, all the things that we have gone through, moved through or experienced yup until this moment. Really all they are, are just moments that we choose to experience: to laugh, cry, to be happy, to be sad, to love, we agreed to experience heart ache, broken promises. To learn to treat people differently, so we forget that each individual is a reflection of our own soul.

When we show angry or hate, or even worst, it is your soul showing you that something needs to heal within you. It’s reflecting from within, to the outside, out into the world. It a dialog that is internal.  Things come and go. People, jobs, money, friends, family, relationships begin and end. These are the things that show our growth as individual or a community, so next time you experience something that makes you upset or uncomfortable take a look at what your soul is trying to teach you. And if, it’s just a moment of pleasure, joy and happiness enjoy it all. It your growth as person in the journey called life.

 

Voice Within